Family

So issues have come up again about Granddaddy, he is living with mother, we have full time help there, but she is frazzled, trouble is, he isn't ready for the nursing home and I hate to see that happen when the state (that he and Grandmother spent their lives paying taxes in to) will get all of his holdings, savings, stocks and bonds... Nursing homes in this area range from 4000 a month to 4500 a month, and I am looking at it like if it takes 4500 a month for him to to be happy and be where he KNOWS he isn't in a nursing home, then so be it. So far, full time help is only 1400 a month, but mother is stressed out... My daughter showed up in tears, their water was shut off today - four kids, two adults. My husband gave them a water key to turn it on, I will pay the bill tomorrow because they don't get paid until Friday... My sister and I are working ourselves into high blood pressure - but we are definitely made of the same cloth, and we are gonna be ok - love her. Missing my Aunt Betty, sad that Uncle Jay is gone, but can't get away to be with her, and it breaks my heart. If we didn't know better we'd think I was her child. Work is keeping me at the very edge - but you know what - that is the profession I chose.... Loving life, loving family... keep going.